{"id":11930,"date":"2025-09-09T15:29:57","date_gmt":"2025-09-09T15:29:57","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=11930"},"modified":"2025-09-09T15:32:19","modified_gmt":"2025-09-09T15:32:19","slug":"i-let-my-sister-in-law-use-my-pool-every-summer-for-her-kids-parties-when-i-asked-to-borrow-her-tent-for-camping-she-sneered-get-your-own-stuff-youre-so-pathetic","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=11930","title":{"rendered":"I let my sister-in-law use my pool every summer for her kids\u2019 parties. When I asked to borrow her tent for camping, she sneered: \u201cGet your own stuff\u2014you\u2019re so pathetic.\u201d My mother-in-law chuckled: \u201cYou shouldn\u2019t expect too much if you\u2019re always asking.\u201d My husband added: \u201cStop being such a freeloader.\u201d I came back from my trip to find my pool drained and damaged. 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