{"id":15804,"date":"2025-10-03T12:00:52","date_gmt":"2025-10-03T12:00:52","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=15804"},"modified":"2025-10-03T12:00:52","modified_gmt":"2025-10-03T12:00:52","slug":"15804","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=15804","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<h2 data-start=\"2926\" data-end=\"2943\">The First No<\/h2>\n<p data-start=\"2944\" data-end=\"3523\">I looked down at my son, asleep on my chest. I texted back, \u201cI\u2019ll see what I can do.\u201d Then I sat with the sour taste of it. This was familiar\u2014every ask framed as urgent. I\u2019d paid before: her rent, my mom\u2019s dental bill, a new phone for my stepdad after a fishing trip, help refinancing a car. No one ever asked how I was covering any of it while pregnant and working full-time. That morning something clicked off. I replied, \u201cI can\u2019t help right now. Maybe in a week or two. 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