{"id":15998,"date":"2025-10-07T18:48:30","date_gmt":"2025-10-07T18:48:30","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=15998"},"modified":"2025-10-07T18:48:43","modified_gmt":"2025-10-07T18:48:43","slug":"15998","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=15998","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Still, I never really let it get to me. Or at least, that\u2019s what I told myself. I kept my head down, sent the checks when they were needed, replied to the group texts, showed up for holidays armed with wine and a practiced smile, and absorbed the small jabs that always came dressed as jokes.<\/p>\n<div class=\"hb-ad-inpage\">\n<div class=\"hb-ad-inner\">\n<div id=\"hbagency_space_218532_3\" class=\"hbagency_cls hbagency_space_218532\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>\u201cEli, you\u2019re so serious! Loosen up, man, it\u2019s just a party.\u201d<\/p>\n<div class=\"hb-ad-inpage\">\n<div class=\"hb-ad-inner\">\n<div id=\"hbagency_space_218532_4\" class=\"hbagency_cls hbagency_space_218532\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p class=\"ng-star-inserted\"><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">\u201cOh, we figured you\u2019d be busy. You\u2019re\u00a0<\/span><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">always<\/span><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">\u00a0working.\u201d<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"ng-star-inserted\"><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">I took it all in stride. I suppose a part of me, a naive, hopeful part, believed that if I just kept showing up, kept being reliable, one day I\u2019d be seen as an integral part of the family, not just the one funding it from the background.<\/span><\/p>\n<p class=\"ng-star-inserted\"><span class=\"ng-star-inserted\">That illusion didn\u2019t just crack last fall. 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