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I\u2019m sixty-eight years old, and for my entire life, I have been a woman who makes compromises for the sake of love. I gave in when my husband, Anthony, wanted to paint our first house a jarring shade of blue instead of the serene green I had dreamed of. I gave in when my son, Edward, chose to study engineering instead of taking over the family bookstore we had built from scratch. 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