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School became my desperate refuge. While my social life withered from the long hours I spent working and studying, my grades absolutely flourished. So when that acceptance letter from Wharton School of Business arrived\u2014with a partial scholarship, no less\u2014I thought, finally. I thought my mother might for once show a flicker of pride.<\/p>\n
Instead, she looked at the envelope as if it contained a death notice.<\/p>\n
\u201cPhiladelphia? That\u2019s just selfish, Rebecca. Your father could lose his job any day now. What about your family?\u201d<\/p>\n
But for the first time in my life, I put myself first. And though the guilt followed me all the way to Pennsylvania, a cold, persistent shadow, I went anyway.<\/p>\n
Even hundreds of miles away, I couldn\u2019t escape the suffocating family dynamic. Monthly calls home were filled with subtle reminders of my absence during their hardships, veiled accusations of abandonment wrapped in heavy sighs and pregnant pauses. Despite it all, I still sent money home. When my father finally did lose his factory job during my sophomore year, I immediately set up a joint account with my mother and deposited a portion of my work-study money every single month. It wasn\u2019t much, but it helped keep the lights on.<\/p>\n