{"id":21382,"date":"2025-11-28T00:30:21","date_gmt":"2025-11-28T00:30:21","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=21382"},"modified":"2025-11-28T00:30:21","modified_gmt":"2025-11-28T00:30:21","slug":"21382","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=21382","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>If I corrected him gently, he\u2019d roll his eyes and say something like, \u201cRelax, Major. Not everything has to be by the book.\u201d The tone wasn\u2019t playful anymore. It was condescending.<\/p>\n<p>A week before the barbecue, he called me a \u201cfragile officer type.\u201d It was in response to something minor, something I don\u2019t even remember now. But the phrase stuck with me. Fragile. As if I hadn\u2019t earned everything I had. As if my rank was handed to me. As if I didn\u2019t train, didn\u2019t lead, didn\u2019t serve.<\/p>\n<p>I didn\u2019t respond. I let it go. But I knew something had shifted between us. And I didn\u2019t know if it could be fixed.<\/p>\n<p>The early signs of Tyler\u2019s new arrogance weren\u2019t loud. They were small, scattered across conversations and interactions that I might have dismissed if I hadn\u2019t been paying attention. But I was paying attention. I\u2019d known him his whole life. I could tell when something was off.<\/p>\n<p>His replies to my messages became clipped, almost robotic. If I asked how training was going, he\u2019d say, \u201cGood.\u201d If I asked what he\u2019d been up to, he\u2019d say, \u201cNothing much.\u201d No details, no warmth, just enough to technically respond without actually engaging. 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