{"id":26162,"date":"2026-01-05T20:45:32","date_gmt":"2026-01-05T20:45:32","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=26162"},"modified":"2026-01-05T20:45:32","modified_gmt":"2026-01-05T20:45:32","slug":"26162","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=26162","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>My mother stopped stirring whatever was in the pot. My father\u2019s newspaper lowered inch by inch until I could see his face and his jaw was so tight I could see the muscle twitching near his ear. They were both staring at my hand. My left hand, the one holding the pencil. See, I\u2019m left-handed.<\/p>\n<div class=\"hb-ad-inpage\">\n<div class=\"hb-ad-inner\">\n<div id=\"hbagency_space_255838_1\" class=\"hbagency_cls hbagency_space_255838\"><\/div>\n<\/div>\n<\/div>\n<p>I\u2019ve been left-handed since I could hold a crayon. And in my family, that was basically the same as being born with horns and a tail. My parents had this thing, this belief that left-handedness was wrong. Not just inconvenient or unusual, but actually morally wrong. Like being left-handed meant there was something broken inside you that could never be fixed.<\/p>\n<p>They\u2019d spent my entire childhood trying to cure me. When I was five, my mother would take the crayon out of my left hand and shove it into my right over and over until I was crying so hard I couldn\u2019t see the coloring book anymore. When I was eight, my father made me write lines with my right hand every night for a month. I will use my proper hand.<\/p>\n<p>I will use my proper hand. 500 times. My handwriting looked like a seismograph reading and my wrist achd for weeks, but I still couldn\u2019t do it. My brain just wasn\u2019t wired that way. But the worst was when I was 12. I\u2019d been doing homework that night, too. Math, I think. 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