{"id":3151,"date":"2025-05-29T13:37:55","date_gmt":"2025-05-29T13:37:55","guid":{"rendered":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=3151"},"modified":"2025-05-29T13:37:55","modified_gmt":"2025-05-29T13:37:55","slug":"3151","status":"publish","type":"post","link":"https:\/\/readmore.cx\/?p=3151","title":{"rendered":""},"content":{"rendered":"<p>Trying not to jump to conclusions, I texted him, asking for a picture from the trip. His response? Vague. \u201cService is bad. Just pitched my tent.\u201d But I knew he never left. To be sure, I messaged another church wife. Her husband, supposedly on the same retreat, was actually away on a business trip in Milwaukee. That was the moment it clicked \u2014 Thomas had lied to me, to our children, and to our church.<\/p>\n<p>Using the Find My iPhone app we had set up months ago, I tracked his location. He wasn\u2019t in the woods \u2014 he was at a downtown hotel, just one town over. I quietly arranged for a babysitter, packed a small overnight bag, and drove there. When I knocked on his hotel room door, he answered in a robe. Behind him, a younger woman lounged in bed, sipping champagne. I handed him an envelope with the evidence: his location, a photo of the camping gear, and a divorce lawyer\u2019s card.<\/p>\n<p>He stammered, but I didn\u2019t let him speak. I reminded him how he preached honesty and faith, all while hiding betrayal behind a Bible. As I turned to leave, I saw that Bible on the bedside table, marked with his notes \u2014 and draped with the woman\u2019s red lace bra. That image said it all. 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