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I grew up close to my cousin Tyler. We were only a year apart, me older, but that gap never really mattered when we were kids. We played the same games, climbed the same trees, got in the same kind of trouble. Our families lived twenty minutes apart, so weekends meant sleepovers, bike rides, and long summer days that stretched until the fireflies came out.

Tyler was always competitive. He wanted to win at everything: board games, basketball, even who could hold their breath longer underwater. I was quieter, more disciplined. I didn’t need to win every time, but when I set my mind to something, I followed through.

Our family had a way of framing us. Tyler was the athletic one. I was the book-smart one. It was never mean-spirited, just the way relatives talked. He got praised for scoring touchdowns in high school. I got praise for my GPA and my acceptance into ROTC. We existed in separate lanes, and for a long time that worked.