But he never acknowledged it. Not once. He’d accept the help, say thanks in passing, then move on like it was owed to him. And when he talked about his accomplishments, he made it sound like he’d done everything alone.
I didn’t need credit. I wasn’t keeping score. But the lack of recognition started to sting after a while, especially when he began brushing off my real experience. He listened to my stories about training exercises or deployments, then changed the subject or made a joke, as if what I did didn’t count. As if being an officer meant I didn’t know what real work looked like.
The family planned a big summer barbecue after months of everyone being scattered. It was going to be at Uncle James’s place, the usual spot for gatherings. Lots of food, lots of people, the kind of event where everyone caught up and kids ran around the yard until dark.
I knew Tyler would be there. I hadn’t seen him in a while. I expected some of the usual bravado, the Marine pride, maybe a few jokes at my expense. I didn’t expect anything dramatic. I figured we’d talk, eat, and go home. That’s how these things usually went.
I was looking forward to it. Honestly, I missed the version of Tyler I used to know, the one who wasn’t trying so hard to prove something.
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