I didn’t argue. I simply shrugged. “It’s fine, Kathy. I used to be that hungry too.”
It was the most personal thing I had shared with my coworkers in three years.
I pushed away the questions that clawed at me. Where were his parents? Why was he alone? Why did he wear the same hoodie three days in a row? In my experience, kindness with conditions wasn’t kindness at all. It was a transaction. So I let the silence stand.
I watched his shoulders gradually lower from their perpetual defensive hunch. I watched his eyes meet mine for a second longer each morning. That small change—that moment of connection—was enough.
But kindness, I learned, offends some people.
By the sixth week, the whispers started. Customers noticed the free food. Most said nothing, but others couldn’t resist the particular cruelty of those who have forgotten what it means to need.
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