I remember Michael calling me that first Friday afternoon.
“Mom, it went through. Thank you. I don’t know what we’d do without you.”
His gratitude was genuine. I could hear the relief, the weight lifting off his shoulders.
“You’d do the same for me,” I told him.
And I believed that. I really did.
For the first few months, I’d get a text every week. A heart emoji. A quick, “Thanks, Mom.” Sometimes Clare would send a photo of the kids with a caption like, “Because of Grandma, we’re okay this week.”
It made me feel needed. Connected. Like I wasn’t just an old woman living alone with her memories and her pills in her too-quiet house.
But then something shifted.
The thank-you texts became shorter, then less frequent. Then they stopped altogether. Instead, I’d get a message on Thursday nights.
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