I took my five-year-old daughter to the ER for a severe allergic reaction on my sister’s wedding day. When we returned home, the key no longer fit the door. We stood in the pouring rain for hours, making hundreds of unanswered calls. My sister finally rang, sneering, “You embarrassed the family. I’m ashamed of you both.” Then my mother texted, “We’ve decided—you and your burden don’t live here anymore.” I didn’t argue. I made one quiet call. Two days later, they were all begging me.

Part 1: The Allergy and the Aesthetic

The reception was a masterpiece of vanity. My sister, Chloe, had spent six months curating every inch of the country club ballroom. From the imported Italian silk tablecloths to the ice sculpture carved in the shape of a swan (her spirit animal, she claimed), everything screamed wealth. It was a loud, desperate scream, funded entirely by credit cards I would inevitably be asked to pay off.

I sat at Table 12, far enough from the head table to be ignored but close enough to be summoned if they needed a check signed. Next to me sat my five-year-old daughter, Mia. She was wearing a puffy blue dress and kicking her legs happily, oblivious to the fact that her aunt had referred to her presence as “a visual compromise.”

“Mommy, I’m hungry,” Mia whispered, tugging on the sleeve of my evening gown.

“I know, sweetie,” I said, handing her a roll from the bread basket. “The main course is coming soon.”

A waiter placed a plate of chicken satay in front of her. It smelled delicious—rich, savory, and nutty.

“Wait,” I said, my hand shooting out to stop Mia’s fork. “Does this sauce have peanuts?”

The waiter looked confused. “I believe it’s a peanut reduction, ma’am. Is there an allergy card on file?”

I felt the blood drain from my face. I had sent three emails to Chloe. I had spoken to my mother twice. NO NUTS for Table 12. Severe Anaphylaxis.

“Don’t eat it, Mia,” I said, pulling the plate away.