Josh, my son-in-law, remarried within eight months to Brittany, who appeared polished but distant. Emma became quieter, avoiding talk of her mom because “it made Daddy sad,” according to Brittany. I knew something was off when Brittany began sending me shopping lists for Emma’s needs—always expensive, always urgent. I provided without question, only to discover Emma had received none of it. Brittany was using my generosity to fund her lifestyle.