The champagne flute trembled in my palm as I watched my sister, Sabrina, glide across the marble floor of the Ritz-Carlton’s grand ballroom. Her custom Vera Wang gown trailed behind her like liquid silk. Two hundred people had arrived to witness her fairy-tale wedding to Derek, a brilliant investment banker she had met only eight months before. I couldn’t help but notice the irony: she was marrying for money while demanding mine.