My family ‘forgot’ to invite me to the annual cruise, yet my younger cousins got tickets. my aunt texted, “thought you’d be too busy with work.” I didn’t argue. two days later, I saw a charge for the full group package on my card. I called the service and said, “I need to cancel and get a full refund.” the ship didn’t leave. later that evening, my uncle called, furious. I simply said, “thought you’d be too busy with the ocean.” and that was before step two began…