In my family, I’m the quiet one. The listener. The one who doesn’t stir the pot. People like me, we get underestimated. But we also remember everything.
My name is Adam, and I’m 29. My brother, Nate, is two years younger, and growing up, our dynamic was chaotic but close. We were a unit. But after college, things shifted. Nate got into sales and constructed a new identity piece by piece: tailored suits, a leased BMW, and a social media feed full of gym selfies and motivational quotes he didn’t live by. I took a quieter path. I got my engineering degree, moved to a different city, and built a solid, stable life I didn’t feel the need to post about. We still talked, but it felt like an obligation, not an affection.